So what now? Job one changed up on me.?

You answered your own question there.. if you need the money take the job that starts now. You could work dress barn until the other job is ready to start you. If the appointment setter job is paid on commission then I would take dress barn anyways. I was an appointment setter for Worldmark by Wyndham and it was the worst job EVER!!! I hated going to work, the people were rude, but the paycheck was ok as long as people kept their appointments.